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Burning the Old to Become the Phoenix: A Night I Won’t Forget
Last night was… something else. I couldn’t sleep for anything. I ate a slice of pizza, had a little wine, and thought I’d drift off, but the second I lay down, my mind started running laps. My chest felt tight, acid reflux kicking in no matter how I turned. I kept trying to get comfortable, but my body said, “Nope.” I tried picking up my phone, thinking the mindless scrolling would tire me out, but it didn’t. And at this point in my life, nothing on my phone excites me the wa
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Dec 2, 20253 min read


The Outlier, The Architect... Who Am I?
A conversation between my spiritual present self and higher consciousness ... Introduction There are seasons when silence feels heavy — when you begin to realize that your isolation is not punishment, but preparation. This dialogue is a reflection of one of those moments. It is a conversation between my spiritual present self — the human part of me that feels, questions, and wrestles — and my higher consciousness — the divine awareness that always knows . Together, they mee
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Nov 3, 20253 min read


Refinement Over Rushing: Lessons from My Saturn Return
The Potter's Wheel represents 3 things: The Hands of God (Yahweh), the clay ( Human Life), the continuous spin of the palette (God's...
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Sep 10, 20252 min read


"I Am Not My Upbringing": Liberating the Inner Child to Lead the Woman I’m Becoming
There’s a silent agreement many of us make as children: “If I can just be good enough, helpful enough, quiet enough, maybe I’ll be loved...
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Jul 7, 20253 min read


The Real Work of Being Present
While cleaning my room and sorting my hair care products, I came across a small bag of cowrie shells I bought from the beauty supply...
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Jun 11, 20252 min read


Blooming into Divine Feminism
staying true to your voice, your journey, and your vulnerability When I first heard the term Divine Feminism , I didn’t know what it...
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Jun 9, 20252 min read


Let’s Talk About Balance.
Not the buzzword version. Not the Pinterest-perfect "morning routine and green juice" kind of balance. I'm talking about the real kind....
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Jun 6, 20252 min read
Is it worth it? Let me work it... I put my thang down, flip it, and reverse it!
So there’s this goal, this dream, this vision, I’ve had for myself, and I think I wrote it down sometime in late 2024, going into this...
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Jun 4, 20254 min read


The Weight of Gluttony: A Reflection on Overconsumption in America
I wasn’t even thinking about this today, not consciously at least, but a TikTok video brought it back up. This topic has sat on my spirit...
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Jun 4, 20252 min read


The Cost of Unchecked Vulnerability: Why So Many Black Women Choose Hyper-Independence
'Young Love' by Cleo Sol Introduction There’s a quiet war happening inside many Black women — the battle between the desire to be soft...
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May 30, 20252 min read
A Personal Reflection on My Relationships
If I ran into them randomly, in public… I don’t know how I’d react. I mean, I can sit here and play out different scenarios. Feed into...
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May 29, 20254 min read
How Can I Show Myself Love in the Ways I Wish Others Had?
All right, y’all—It’s a new day. A fresh start. It’s Sunday. This week has been a little wild. I’ve been busy, running around, trying to...
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May 28, 20253 min read
Learning to Let Go with Love: Healing My Father Wound and Reclaiming My Heart
For the past couple of years, I’ve wrestled with emotions that linger long after connections have ended. I find myself driving around...
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May 24, 20253 min read
You know that viral trend on social media that says:
“Now that you can remember everything that I have said to you, what are my blind spots?” I asked my ChatGPT for a response—and here’s...
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May 23, 20252 min read
I’m Not the Wife. I’m Not the Mother. But I’m Still Expected to Clean.
There’s this unspoken expectation I’ve noticed—especially as a single Black woman with no children. If I’m staying in a family home or...
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May 22, 20252 min read
A Quiet Celebration
This morning, I cried on my way to the grocery store. Not because I was sad — but because I was overwhelmed with gratitude. Out of...
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May 21, 20252 min read
When Everything Feels Like It's Falling Apart...
I don’t know if it’s my Saturn Return. I don’t know if a specific transit is crossing over my chart. I know we’re not in retrograde right...
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May 20, 20253 min read
Shadow Work Prompt: When Did I First Feel Like My Voice or Feelings Weren’t Valid?
Hello everyone, and we are back with a new day, a new question on this path of self-discovery , defining and refining ourselves. Welcome...
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May 19, 20253 min read
Shadow Work Prompt: Forgiveness, Regret, and Closure
Today’s Question: "What apologies am I still waiting to hear—and why are they important to me?” Let me say this now: I’m past waiting...
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May 18, 20252 min read
Allow me to Introduce Myself
Hello. Good day. Grand rising. However, you see fit to start your day. I didn’t forget this time—I'm back with question number two of our...
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May 17, 20252 min read
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