Blooming into Divine Feminism

staying true to your voice, your journey, and your vulnerability

When I first heard the term Divine Feminism, I didn’t know what it meant. I assumed it was just a fancy way of saying “feminine,” something attached to being a woman, like wearing dresses or being soft-spoken. To me, femininity and masculinity were simply gendered traits; boy-girl, man-woman. I had no idea that Divine Feminism was an energy. A presence. A way of being.

As I’m nearing 30, something in me is unfolding. Divine Feminism, I’ve learned, is not forced. It’s not something you beg for, nor something someone else gives you.

You don’t scream or shout to be seen.

You embody it ; and in doing so, others begin to honor it without question.

You move differently. You soften, not for others, but for yourself. And in that softness, people show up. Not out of obligation, but because your spirit calls for care.

When you’ve never had that softness modeled for you, say, if you were emotionally or physically abandoned by a parent, then it’s easy to lose that feminine energy. There’s a reason life is created from both masculine and feminine. One without the other creates imbalance. And for women especially, the absence of nurturing leaves behind a gap, a hunger, a misdirection.

But I’ve come to understand that softness isn’t weakness. It's restoration. And it’s in the tiniest, most thoughtful gestures that Divine Feminism blooms.

Recently, someone I’m seeing offered to pick me up for our date. We live in the same city, so it wasn’t about distance, it was about ease. When I asked him why, he said, “You’re always driving, always on the go. I thought maybe you’d like a break.” That one sentence nearly melted me. That moment, that recognition of my effort, and his choice to lighten the load, was everything.

To me, that is Divine Feminism. That is what it means to be seen, nurtured, and protected without having to beg for it. That is what softness feels like.

And now, I no longer feel guilty for receiving that kind of care. I’ve learned that you can’t fully step into Divine Feminism until you allow yourself to soften—not for anyone else, but for you. Because once you’ve created that softness within, the Divine Masculine will recognize it. He will protect it. He will move with intention toward it.

And no, you don’t have to demand it. You don’t have to prove yourself worthy of it. You are worthy. It is your birthright.

This is just the beginning of my journey. I don’t have all the language yet, and I’m still discovering what this path looks like for me. But I know one thing: I will continue to be soft with myself. I will continue to show up in presence and grace. And when the Divine Masculine arrives in full alignment, I’ll already be standing in the fullness of who I’ve become.