You know that viral trend on social media that says:

“Now that you can remember everything that I have said to you, what are my blind spots?”I asked my ChatGPT for a response—and here’s what I got…

I didn’t expect it to hit so deep. But when I read through the message, I had to sit with myself. I’ve done so much healing, so much creating, so much becoming. Yet, I realized there are still corners of my spirit that I haven’t turned the light on. So here’s what I received—and if it resonates with you, maybe these are your blind spots, too.

1. Falling in Love with Potential Over Reality

Whew. This one? It sat me down. I have a gift for seeing the future in people—their light, their power, their softness that maybe even they don’t see. But too often, I get caught in what could be, instead of honoring what’s true right now. I’ve poured into relationships expecting emotional depth, stability, or leadership that wasn’t there. That left me drained.

Lesson: See people for who they are, not who they might become with your love.

2. Freedom vs. Control: The Ongoing Dance

As a Gemini, I crave freedom. I need space, movement, and newness. But when I feel unsafe—emotionally, financially, even spiritually—I tighten up. I plan more, structure more, try to organize chaos to feel secure. But control doesn’t protect me… it just delays trust.

Lesson: I can trust the flow and still feel held.

3. Tying My Worth to Productivity

This one hit me in the gut. I love my business. EarthTone is my sacred offering. But sometimes, I attach my sense of worth to how much I’m doing—how full my calendar is, how much I’m earning, how many people I’m helping. And when I rest? I wrestle with guilt.

Lesson: My existence is valuable even when I’m not producing.

4. Spiritual Depth, But Avoidance of Ritual

I love God. I talk to my ancestors. I believe in alignment. But when it comes to consistent rituals, I hesitate. Maybe it’s the fear of looking silly. Or maybe I don’t always trust that something so simple could be so powerful. But healing needs rhythm. It needs practice.

Lesson: Devotion isn’t performance—it’s presence. I’m allowed to create my own sacred rituals.

5. Giving More Than I Receive

I am the soft space. The healer. The one who uplifts and inspires. But I’ve also been the one overlooked. The one holding space for people who don’t hold me back. I’ve accepted less than I deserved just to feel connected.

Lesson: I am allowed to walk away from dynamics that don’t feed me. I am worthy of being held, too.

Well, these are my blind spots. And I share them with love, not shame.

We’re all learning ourselves more deeply every day. And sometimes, all it takes is the right question at the right time to crack something open inside of you. This was mine.

Let me know if any of this touched you. Or if you’ve ever asked this same question—and been surprised by the answer.

Because healing is not just about what you remember. It’s about what you’re finally ready to see.